Good morning! Truly! This morning I came downstairs to a fully clean mantle and bookshelf in our den. Cleaning fairies in the middle of the night? No, a late night burst of energy and focus from me, supported by my wonderful husband!
I started reading a book entitled Simplicity Parenting about a week ago. (When my children saw the title, they mocked it by saying, "Why don't you simply let us do whatever we want?") Ha ha. I am only through the intro and half of Chapter One, but already a major theme is about the environment of our home. How much STUFF do we need and what kind of feeling does cluttered create compared to clear and clean? (how's that for alliteration??)
As you might know, I did a previous post about TMS (Too Much Stuff-for lack of a better "S")
There are times when I feel I am drowning in stuff. I have not seen the top of my dresser in years. It is currently covered in stuffed animals (hiding from Jerry), socks (waiting for a partner), a glass head (for my hats), and I honestly don't even know what else. But I digress...
Focusing on a step towards less stuff, back to my cleaning moment last night...
Our mantle was full of Lego projects, cough drop wrappers from 1982, headphones for IPods in other rooms, just STUFF! After cleaning it all off, I truly realized that this is the hearth and heart of our home. It is the focal point of the whole house! Do you think I am feeling cleansed this morning, walking downstairs to SPACE instead of STUFF??? Wonderful...the saying that immediately pops into my head is that I can breathe...
I am looking forward to reading the rest of Payne's book. I understand that Chapter 2 is about creating the space in TIME for ourselves and our children to breathe and to just be. The idea that is popping up on Clean:LuSa Organics blog bookclub (http://www.lusaorganics.typepad.com/) about it is that we, as parents need to provide the time and opportunity for our children to be able to have space for thought and healing:
"It is not our job to fix what is not working. Our work is to create a nurturing and calm environment, connect with and unconditionally love our hurting child, and allow them to heal."- Rachel Wolf from LuSa Organics referring to the book.
That sounds like a life skill that Tony and I both want for our children.
Peace and clean breathing!
P.S. After this, I think my clutter has morphed from stuff to parentheses!